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Making small talk isn‘t as easy as it seems. Sometimes it can be awkward and even painful. But if you can learn the art to it, you can be a good conversationalist. One rule is that you don‘t have to be radiant and dazzling, you just have to be nice. If you begin with simple, even obvious comments, it will make it easier for others. Here are some tips from communication specialists on how to steer clear of sticky, uncomfortable small-talk situations.

Consider doing a little homework. Try to think of a few things to talk about in case the conversation runs dry. If you’ve previously met the person you are talking to, try to remember things about her. To keep the chat timely and bubbly, read some newspaper headlines and movie or book reviews. It can help give interesting topics to talk about.

Remembering names can be hard as introductions tend to pass in a blur. The key: Slow down and stay focused. Try repeating the name twice after you’ve heard it. Consider using the name in the conversation this can help remember the name. If you forget a name, subtly ask a third party for help or listen for it in a conversation. If all else fails, confess. Just don’t panic and don't feel awful. Simply say, “I’ve just drawn a blank. What’s your name again?” You’re only human and it’s a common mistake.

When in a conversation, one of the most common awkward scenarios is due to short answers. So as much as possible, embellish your response and don’t hold back. This can be a start of a sensible discussion especially if the person can relate to what you are saying e.g. you both have children or you’ve both been to Italy.

“People enjoy talking about themselves, so be a great listener. If you’ve just been introduced to someone, ask what kind of work they do and what kind of hobbies they enjoy. The questions don’t have to be that particular. When in doubt, talk about the surroundings. It seems like an escape, but you can never go wrong with it because it’s something you have in common at the moment. Another foolproof conversation starter is “How do you know the host?”

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